How to talk to your partner about their drinking problem
If your partner’s drinking habits worry you, you might feel the urge to talk to them about it but be at a loss for words. It can be challenging to choose how to bring up the matter with them without upsetting or offending them.
You’re not the only one in this situation. About 25% of respondents over the age of 18 who participated in a 2019 poll reported binge drinking within the previous month.
The indicators that your partner may have an alcohol use disorder are listed in this article, along with some discussion techniques.
Signs Your Partner has a Drinking Problem
The Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders, Fifth Edition (DSM-5) lists a few indicators that your partner may have an alcohol use disorder as follows:
– Strong urges or cravings to drink; drinking more alcohol or for longer periods of time than they intended
– Spending a lot of time drinking or recovering from the effects of alcohol; choosing to drink over other activities or skipping out on things because they’re recovering from the effects of alcohol
– Attempting to stop drinking but failing, needing more alcohol to produce the same effects and more. Being in risky situations while or after drinking, such as drinking and driving
– Suffering from alcohol-related depression, anxiety, memory loss, or other health issues
– Experiencing withdrawal symptoms after drinking, such as trembling, difficulty sleeping, headaches, restlessness, anxiety, or nausea
– Finding that their drinking problem interferes with their relationships with their family, friends, or obligations at work, home, or school
– Continuing to drink despite the negative impacts on their relationships with family, friends, or obligations at work.