What Makes a Crazy Girlfriend

Posted: May 2, 2023
Category: Relationships

What Makes a Crazy Girlfriend, 15 Psychological Symptoms, and How to Handle Her

Do you believe your girlfriend is crazy? Before taking any action, you must be certain of it. You’d go insane exactly like her if you had a psycho girlfriend! Have you ever had an insane girlfriend? If not, you’re one of the fortunate ones! They can push you to the brink of insanity but leave you wondering if they’re truly that crazy or if you just have the wrong impression of them.

The warning signs of a crazy girlfriend should always be watched out for, especially if you’ve never had one before. You never know, this could be your future relationship, and reading this can help you avoid a lot of trouble! Everyone, of course, occasionally experiences the odd episode of crazy, but if your girlfriend consistently exhibits these behaviors, you need to decide what to do next.

A crazy girlfriend is what?

At least in this feature, the term “psycho” or “crazy” just refers to a generalized indication of being creepier than most women. Hence, a psycho or crazy girlfriend is a person who is incredibly needy, clinging, and perhaps a little unstable. She will essentially make your life miserable before reverting to a seemingly normal person, which will make you doubt everything.

Why are there psycho girlfriends?

Usually, a psychotic girlfriend isn’t psychotic because she wants to ruin your life. She more frequently can’t help it because it’s in her nature. Maybe she just falls in love with you too quickly and wants to grasp onto you always. In all honesty, having a crazy girlfriend will inevitably happen to you when dating. Of course, that just means that it’s crucial to be aware of the symptoms of a crazy girlfriend.

You might be dating someone who craves constant contact with you or who practically knows every aspect of your life, even if you haven’t told them yet—creepy stalker warning. It’s not exactly simple to handle.

Crazy girlfriend types

If your girlfriend fits into any of the following descriptions, you might want to reconsider your relationship. After all, one person’s crazy is another person’s normal.

Some examples of crazy girlfriends include:

  • the overly clinging girlfriend
  • the girlfriend who sobs whenever you try to see your friends
  • the woman who knows everything about you without being informed
  • the girlfriend who never lets you leave the house without her
  • he partner who enjoys arguing just for the purpose of it.

There may, of course, be other types that we haven’t yet encountered. And if your girlfriend fits any of these descriptions, leave!

What Makes a Crazy Girlfriend

Psychopaths’ victims frequently don’t see it coming, much like in movies. But when you stop to think about it, it is actually quite obvious. All the information you need to identify a crazy girlfriend is provided below.

  1. She stalks and looks at you when you’re sleeping.

She probably gave you a sweet look while you were asleep, causing you to wake up. Well, that’s charming and adorable, but if she does it each time you go to sleep, then beware! This is a dead giveaway that she is a psycho girlfriend in addition to being obsessed with you.

Sure, it’s very acceptable to adore our partners, but it’s not acceptable if it comes across as weird. Such girls are typically the kind to not only watch you sleep but also to observe you closely everywhere you go.

  1. She reads the texts you send

There is no such thing as respecting your privacy or your limits when your partner is a lunatic. She is interested in every aspect of your life, including your private messages. She reads all of your communications, including text messages, social media accounts, and email. She either manipulates you by crying, storming out, seeming hurt, or by remaining silent when you try to talk about boundaries. Undoubtedly, this is one of the telltale indicators of a crazy relationship.

What Makes a Crazy Girlfriend
  1. She is aware of all your passwords

She obviously has to know all of your passwords in order to read your mails. One of the major warning signs that your partner is mentally unstable is this. She wants to know everything about your private life, in addition to the fact that she doesn’t trust you. There is nothing wholesome about this. Stay away from areas where she can’t see, hear, or touch you if we were you. Why on earth would someone need the password to your social media accounts?

  1. She regularly hangs out with you and your friends.

Once more, a crazy partner is unable of seeing the value of maintaining boundaries. She can’t be apart from you, in other terms, and she craves your company constantly. She may initially appear to be one of the boys, which is extremely cool and laid back of her.

When you tell her you’re going to have a boy’s night out without her, though, you’ll start to see her true colors emerge. She will then start acting suspiciously. When she asks you whether you are with any other girls, she is in the suspicious girlfriend mentality and is unlikely to believe you if you deny it.

  1. She has a sneaky knack for manipulation

A crazy girlfriend is aware of the techniques since she employs them frequently. You can be forced into any scenario by her manipulation. One of the most annoying aspects about working with her is this. She will use every trick in the book to control you, even if you wish to end things or leave her. What’s worst? It is a strategy that will succeed. This is a significant one when identifying the indicators of a crazy girlfriend.

  1. In the dead of night, she calls to check on you

Your girlfriend has mastered the skill of being insane in ways that are so covert that you fail to see them when they are so blatant. Your girlfriend may pretend to be calling or facetiming you because she misses you, but she really simply wants to make sure you aren’t talking to any other ladies.

  1. She texts you from various numbers to entice you.

If your girlfriend is really out of it, she’ll probably send you texts pretending to be another female from several numbers to see how you’ll react to each one.

There is another more evidence of her unstable and insane personality. The problem is that if she says this is a joke, you might fall for it.

  1. She texts your parents frequently and knows them by first name.

Having your girlfriend become close to your parents could feel like a dream come true. Yet, especially if you’ve only been dating for a few weeks, it’s also a clear symptom of a psycho girlfriend. It’s fairly clear that she isn’t thinking clearly because no one in their right mind would act in such a way.

She might be attempting to win your parents over so that she will always have their support when it comes to issues you are facing. Red alert!

  1. Every time you believe you are alone, you find her staring at you from behind

You might not believe it, yet this scenario is more typical than you might realize. There is a distinction between her admiring you from a distance and simply glaring at you to find out what you’re doing. How long did she stand there while you were on the computer, starring at her? How long did she stare at you behind you while you were on the phone? Indeed, it’s one of the telltale indicators of a crazy relationship.

  1. She has never met any of the almost half of your college class on Facebook that she is friends with.

She is buddies with half of your college pals without even knowing them, don’t you think that’s a little crazy? This is still unique behavior, despite the fact that we live in the digital age! Why does she need to be sending you college-related memes? Why does she feel the need to friend every person on your list of contacts?

How to handle an irrational girlfriend

Every girl—and we do mean every girl—is capable of going bonkers if certain things are done to encourage it. If you take a step back and consider her behavior logically, it might not be simply her behavior; it might be how you interact with her. But then again, perhaps she has always been insane. If you don’t want to feel like you’re going insane, you need to learn how to deal with a crazy partner.

Know the symptoms of poisoning

When you are confident that your girlfriend is truly on the psychotic side, it is simpler to decide what to do. Understand the warning indicators we discussed previously so you can identify the situation as soon as possible.

Express your boundaries.

What will you and won’t you put up with? Make sure she understands these limitations and that you will leave if she continues to violate them.

Put yourself first.

While coping with a crazy girlfriend, it’s extremely important to put your needs first. Regularly prioritize yourself, and don’t feel guilty about it. You won’t be able to handle the situation if you don’t take care of yourself.

Address the problems together

Discuss the issue at hand and come up with a solution together. Be as direct as you can without blaming others; use expressions like “it feels like…” rather than “you always…”

Once you’ve had the chat, let her know you’ll help her stop acting in a poisonous way.

Recognize when the relationship should terminate.

Relationships occasionally cannot be saved. You can’t continue to put up with her if she constantly exhibits signs of insanity and doesn’t appear to desire to make things better. When to leave a situation, pay attention to your gut feeling.

Avoid letting a psycho girlfriend make you psychotic as well.

Never believe that you can make a crazy girlfriend into someone who is good for you. You’ll have a difficult time trying to convince her otherwise because she is so skilled at deceiving and gaslighting other people. Accepting the truth and ending the relationship for your own benefit are the only options for dealing with her. Of course, some males don’t mind dating a crazy person. In that scenario, congratulations!

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